Opening Doors to Women´s Ministry in Kosov

May 01, 2013

It was double humiliation for Hatixhe. During the war in Kosovo, her husband Abdyl enlisted in the army and was given prescribed drugs to help him function without sleep. The drugs were narcotics and Abdyl became addicted.

If Abdyl´s drug dependency hadn´t brought enough shame to their family, his second revelation certainly did. How could she tell her relatives–all Muslims–that Abdyl had decided to follow the Christian God?

Her husband´s conversion was not well received by either of their families. In fact, this news brought more shame than the addiction. They were ridiculed. Some wondered if the drugs had poisoned Abdyl´s mind.

But Abdyl refused to be intimidated. Not only that, he quietly lived out his faith in front of Hatixhe and their two young children. He also sought help for the substance abuse that continued to plague him.

Through a small group of believers that were friends of her husband, Hatixhe heard more about Jesus Christ. She had many questions for them. As her mind and heart opened to the gospel, Hatixhe did something she never would have imagined. She too surrendered her life to the Savior.

Hatixhe joined a Bible study group in their city of Gjilan in eastern Kosovo. The program is part of a women´s outreach started this year by Open Doors Church, a local ministry that receives financial support from Christian Aid Mission. The meetings are held weekly in private homes.

Currently 50 men, women, and children attend Open Doors Church, where their motto for this year is “To know, to live out, and to share the Word–JESUS.”

Christian Aid Mission is coming alongside Paulini and Violeta to multiply their efforts. As a way to encourage discipleship, the couple is focusing on building and strengthening house groups. Their church holds a corporate Sunday worship service once a month, in which they focus on evangelism. They also have prayer nights and the weekly gatherings for children and youth.

The city of Gjilan did not suffer the terrible physical effects of the 1990s conflict with Serbia as did other parts of Kosovo. However, wounds of resentment toward the Serbs have not healed. That spirit of unforgiveness poses a greater obstacle to the gospel than does the culture´s Islamic traditions.

Kosovars, many of whom are ethnic Albanians and practicing Muslims, view the Serbs as their enemies. Because Serbia is considered a Christian country, Violeta said it is hard for people in Kosovo to draw a distinction between Christianity and Serbian politics.

“Islam is viewed as a national identity, and most of the people consider the war in Kosovo as a religious matter,” she explained. “Whenever people realize that you are a Christian, they stop visiting you and even consider you a traitor.”

Deciding to follow Christ arouses distrust for anyone who converts, but when that convert is a Kosovar woman, she places herself in a perilous situation economically and socially. Her worst fears are intimidation or even abandonment by her family. Violeta comes alongside these women to encourage them and bolster their faith.

“I believe the Lord has been speaking to my heart to persist so that these women would know the depth, the height, and the width of the love of our Father, and to persevere as Peter and John, who were not afraid of the threats, but obeyed the Lord,” Violeta said.

As part of her outreach efforts, Violeta is currently building relationships with some Kosovar women who are not believers. She prays that in time their hearts will be open to receive the love of Jesus Christ, and that they can be bold witnesses for the Savior among their families and friends.